Veerle Beelen Da Costa David
Certified Travel & Life Coach
From Outsider to Insider: how to belong in a new place
Moving to a new country can be both an exciting adventure and a daunting experience. One of the most common challenges that people face is feeling like an outsider. This feeling can be caused by the unfamiliarity of the new environment, the absence of familiar faces and social networks, and the cultural differences or language that may make you feel out of place. However, there are practical tips that you can use to help you overcome this feeling and embrace your new life abroad.
Be curious and explore the local scene
One way to deal with the feeling of being an outsider is to explore the local scene and immerse yourself in the culture. This may involve going to things that interest you, like art exhibits, poetry readings, or sports events. For example, try a cooking class to learn how to make the national dish of the country. These experiences will help you connect with locals, gain new insights, and create unforgettable memories that add familiarity to your new place.
Volunteer and give back to the community
Another way to integrate into a new culture and combat loneliness is to volunteer and give back to the community. This could involve working with local charities, environmental organizations, or community centers. By doing so, you’ll meet like-minded people, learn new skills, make a positive impact on the world and feel like you become part of the society.
Attend different types of networking events or meetups
Networking events and meet ups are a great way to meet new people and expand your professional or personal network, but they can sometimes also be dull and generic. To spice things up, you could attend different types of networking events that match your interests and personality. For instance, you could attend a digital nomad retreat, a startup pitch night, or a meetup of a local expat club. By attending these events, you’ll not only make new connections but also gain inspiration and insights into how to embrace your new lifestyle.
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In conclusion, feeling like an outsider is a common experience for expats and digital nomads. However, by being curious and exploring the local scene, engaging with the local community, and attending meet ups, you can overcome this feeling and create a fulfilling life in your new country.
Also, remember to stay true to your own path in this journey. Take the time you need to adjust and work on building your confidence and self-awareness, so that you have a strong foundation and feel safe and supported while you navigate your new environment.
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